“Are you sharing your schedule with your wife?” The event told by a friend was talked about on Twitter — The key to building a relationship of trust between husband and wife

A couple takes time to become a family and build a relationship of trust. However, some people find it difficult to see their family as a “team.” A conversation with a friend tweeted by Mr. Nakagawa (@nkgw_yuta) was a hot topic. * The image is an image. A friend told me, “When are you not on your day off, when are you going home, do you share your schedule with your wife? Isn’t it inconvenient? I’m not.”

My friend shut up when I said, “I think it’s your wife, not me, who is inconvenient.” (Quoted from @nkgw_yuta) “Are you sharing your schedule with your wife?” “I’m not.” Mr. Nakagawa was told by a friend. There was something I thought about, and when I asked, “Isn’t it your wife who feels inconvenienced?”, He said he was silent. I’m sure there are many people who deeply sympathize with this exchange. This time, the editorial department talked to Mr. Nakagawa. ――Please tell us about the situation at that time. “I was exchanging messages with friends who have a common hobby, and it was this conversation. My friends are also dads, but they are quite free. And there are not enough members. I got in touch with me, “Can you come to that hobby?” And said, “I need to coordinate my schedule with my wife, and I can’t because I have children.” ――I got a big response on Twitter “I just tweeted an exchange with a friend who has no dullness, but there are still people who want to be as free as when they were single, even if they become parents. It may be the flip side of being there, because when I saw your replies and quote retweets, I felt that “someone doesn’t share the schedule.” I’m in a position to stay at home. But if your partner doesn’t tell you when to go out and when to go home, wouldn’t it be a problem? You might have a meal, and you have a lot of energy to play with your kids on holidays while you’re away. Because I can get it, I will be in a state of “I have only a few percent of the energy left, but when will I go home …”. Both couples are the same parents and I want to operate with the same rules. Free time If you want, your partner will have the same amount of free time, and you’ll be in conflict. ” ――It seems that many people have a pain in their ears. “Of course, it’s not a story of’don’t go out alone when you become a parent.’I also have times when I want to enjoy the time and hobbies I want to be alone even after becoming a parent. It would be great if both husband and wife could make the same amount of time alone while being patient. ” ――Isn’t there a good solution … “It’s just my home, but if I changed the time to secure one person to the” other recommended type “, it worked. The story that became

In the old days, I recommended myself asking “Can I go out?” However, the judge is the child and the answering machine, which is a burdensome side. There are times when “Is there Vegeta asking if I can go out to fight Majin Buu!” And if the judge is NG, both sides will be damaged — Nakagawa | 2y & 1m daddy @ working from home (@nkgw_yuta) ) September 2, 2020
If the house can be turned in the same way regardless of which one is the answering machine, that is the true meaning of “2 horsepower” for housework and childcare. I think it will be much easier every day. I am aiming for a “fair” life as a couple. ” In this post, many readers said, “It’s impossible to play individually without permission.” “I wonder if such a person wants to do it freely without being tied up.” “Why did he get married?” There was a voice of consent to Mr. Nakagawa’s remarks, saying, “I don’t want to be free! I want to be single!” “It’s the best support shooting. Thank you.” My friend told me, “When are you not on your day off, when are you going home, do you share your schedule with your wife? Isn’t it inconvenient? I’m not.”

My friend shut up when I said, “I think it’s your wife, not me, who is inconvenienced.” — Nakagawa | 2y & 1m dad @ working from home (@nkgw_yuta) September 7, 2020